Wedding Date on Oct 22, 2019

Nitesh and Richa dated for almost 8 years before they got married. And she would have hopelessly delayed it further if his side of the family had not forced us to get married. Everyone knew and hence everyone wanted them to settle down. And as much as Richa loved Nitesh and was sure to spend her life with him, she just wasn't ready to get married. And guess she would have never been ready too. Given a choice, she would have dated him forever and lived with her parents at the same time 😅 what a beautiful dream right! Even though she is glad and happy about this getting married thingy yet Can not deny that she misses home a lot. In her weird dreamy world, she always imagined her life where she is living in her home with her parents carrying out the usual life. Cooking kickass breakfast for her mom and dad and then spending the day doing this and that. She would be scolded for getting up late but then she would cheer them up with something or the other. With parents getting older every day, they start behaving like kids. And she needs to take care of them and she really enjoyed that phase. Anyways when finally the date was decided, the emotional roller coaster started again. she would listen to songs like dilbaro and chiriyan da chamba and cry for hours. she was not ready to leave her home. As the days neared she would always cry with just the thought. Knowing her, non-one thought she'll cry but the heart was just not ready to leave that paradise her parents built. It was not perfect but it was special. she didn't cry at her vidai too(coz she knew it'll break everyone around) so she again tried acting smart only to hug Nitesh later in few days and cry like a baby for hours and hours together. When she saw this strong man shed a tear she broke inside. He was sobbing during vidai. How hard it is for parents to let go off their jigar ka tukda. And how hard it is for girls to start a new life altogether. she'll trade anything now to live with her parents and bring Nitesh along too hahaha.